Being weird is definitely one of the least characteristic that a normal kid would want to have, but for those few who understands the uniqueness of this personality, it is quite fun and enjoyable. Try to think of it this way you have your own world where everything for yourself satisfaction is customized the way you want it to be and you have your quirky point of view that others find to be abnormal. It is also quite disturbing if your weirdness meter goes beyond the exceeding point, when no one even dares to be around you cause they are too afraid of your point of views and actions. Don't let yourself be an outcast try to remember even if you have the coolest or the lamest personality no man is an island here are some helpful tips on HOW TO INTERACT WITH OTHERS USING YOUR WEIRDNESS AS A TOOL.
- Try to set your weirdness meter on cool profile; gather attention by being an eye/ear hooker talk about stuffs that will probably set their curiosity intact.
- Be sure to have limits on the way you give out facts and opinions; I know your ideas are cool but some of it may offend someone
- When you are talking to someone that you barely even know try to open up a mild weirdness on your activities; take your conversation slow don't let the moment be "WTF" remember a conversation will not be fun or interesting if the person that you are conversing with already knows the hell that your talking about.
- Out with the creepy booger weird look; I know that it is wrong to judge a book by its cover but for some instances we do pick who we want to talk to base on their physical appearance, fashionably combine your weird looks for a more appealing weird charisma (people dig the orthodox dressing).
- Avoid doing your weirdness in public(if needed); Yeah right its cool to be the center of the spotlight but if it is in an awkward way you will probably end up killing yourself.
- Let others discover your weirdness; it is not cool if you will shove your weirdness in their face as my friend told me "At a moment there I didn't knew that you were weird, its quite cool that you didn't vulgarly showed it to me"
- For my last tip NEVER HIDE THE REAL YOU; as I have said you are just making yourself compatible to others you are not changing yourself for them, showing your personality to them is a sign of opening yourself to others so let them decide if they want to stick with you or not.
This article would probably help you on how to use your unique personality as a tool for conversation remember this is not the whole basis on how you can converse with others all of us are weird enough to make a move so let your weirdness guide you.
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