Thursday, August 11, 2011

The single issue

      We look at life in a more independent way, but at the back of our mind something is missing or maybe it's not a "THING" perhaps a "SOMEONE".

      Single as a status is a near fact of a choice, for some they want to enjoy life only with their friends and family but on the later part of their lives they will come to a sense that they need to share a more personal relationship to someone besides their friends and family. At the age of 16 to 22 it's the time when common individuals starts to look for a partner but for some it's the age of enjoying life alone. You cant blame them for their actions but counter fit to it is that you can judge them, who says judging is not free? When I think of that scenario I picture it as the monument of Lapu-lapu at Rizal park, staring blankly into space wondering and searching for the answers why a great guy like him is alone though he stands tall every one dares to look but no one dares to love.


      
Before this begins to be a hardcore emo let's make things a little bit calmer.Even a martyr cant resist what love has to offer, it only shows that the heart has a mind of its own. It is like a vice that is very addictive once you felt that strange fuzzy feeling you cant back out of it unless you have a strong faith about mind over matter. I never met someone who does not want to have any commitments when it comes to a relationship, some ended up well while others are disastrous. When your looking for a thrill or an adventure in life why not try to find the HE or SHE of your life if it does not work out try to believe in destiny if it still does not work out just let it be for a moment and focus on your career who knows maybe the one that you are looking for is always beside you the whole time.
       

 After looking at others point of views I manage not to get any ideas out of it. I respect their decisions about love but for me only inanimate objects does not have the power to love, if a traumatic event had happened on their past relationship try to remember "any kind of wounds shall perish if it is treated well though a scar might appear it would be a sign that the struggles of the past had healed" (sniff sniff sniff blood suddenly rushes out of my nose). We all have the rights to love it is upon us if we shall use it or not.



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